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    Hani Henry, who is chair and associate professor of Psychology in the Department of Sociology, Anthropology, Psychology and Egyptology of the AUC, believes that Robert Sternberg’s psychological theory explains why people fall in love, and they are in fact the most common reasons, which are intimacy, passion, and commitment.

    Intimacy

    A basic friendship is a relationship that involves a person falling in love with another person for intimate reasons. It lacks commitment and passion. Henry explained that intimacy isn’t just about developing a close bond with someone. "Sometimes it can be self-serving. Everyone needs to feel loved, cared for, and respected. Women want to feel feminine, while men want to feel masculine.

    The song Hello by Adele is a great example of intimacy. In the song’s chorus, Adele contacts her ex-boyfriend and pours out her heartbreak from the relationship. She says that she hasn’t been able to heal herself after so many years. He said that her lyrics were magical and could be used by anyone who wants to feel a connection with someone or have a long-term relationship.

    Passion

    Normal to fall in love out of desire or strong feelings is normal. Passionate love is a result of sexual attraction, romantic interest, and romance. Henry stated, "When someone you like is attracted to you by something that draws them to that person." "The attraction is not just physical. There is also a fascination for the hair, eyes, body."

    In the absence of intimacy and commitment, infatuation is developed with the person you love.
    gitarijada are attracted to one another and develop a sense of lust. Some people are obsessed and see that person as a type of object. He said that you can live with someone for many years without feeling any commonality.

    Commitment

    Total love comes from commitment. "People who seek commitment want stability and a healthy relationship," he said. "People who are only looking for commitment might lack basic friendship interests and sexual attraction."

    Henry stated that today’s young adults are more concerned about objects than they are about relationships. He said, "The objectification of culture comes from consumerism." "The more consumerism a culture becomes the more people lose interest and commitments. Some youth are more concerned with impressing people they don’t care about. All things must be consumed, including relationships with people.

    Love Outside of the Triangular Theory

    Sternberg’s love theory is universally applicable. However, everyone has their own reasons for falling in love. Your reason for falling madly in love does not necessarily have to be explained by science. Henry stated that some personal needs could include the fear of being alone or social peer pressure, fulfillment, or religious values.

    Regardless of what psychology may say about love and how it affects us, we define who we really are by the type of love that we choose. We all have our own unique ways of understanding what makes us happy, and what fulfills our human desires. "Some people are caught with a need that meets each dimension of the triangle and they can’t give up on two because of the different needs they get. Love can be complex.